Let’s start the month of May by looking at your typical career outlook by the stages:
- Stage One―“It’s safe and provides me with feelings of security.”
- Stage Two―“It’s an easy way to find lots of opportunities to feel powerful by manipulating and bullying others as well as (perhaps) to make easy money.”
- Stage Three―“It is the type of work my family/ ‘tribe’ does (or always did) or values most.”
- Stage Four―“It gives me prestige and/or a steady stream of good people contact.” In addition, “It pleases the people in my life whose approval I value most.”
- Stage Five―“It’s lucrative (or pays the bills) and/ or gives me something to do and/or nice contacts and perks.”
- Stage Six―“I love what I do … It’s what comes easiest to me, feels most flowing and natural … I wouldn’t want to be doing anything else … I feel fulfilled irrespective of the financial and other extrinsic rewards I get … I get pleasure from the challenge of it … If I never again had to work, I would still choose to be doing this.”
- Stage Seven―“It’s an excellent way (or the best way I can) to make the contribution I want to make the most.”
If you cannot identify with the target stages Six and Seven careerwise, you may want to consider this a wake-up call.